i have a really rude cat named sam that does not acknowledge my existence/is very mean to me if he actually does. like he’ll jump on the couch and lay next to me, which makes me nervous because the second i move an inch he claws at me and runs away

he just woke me up by scratching at my door and meowing to get in WHICH I DON’T THINK HE’S EVER ACTUALLY BEEN IN MY ROOM IN THE 3 YEARS THAT I’VE HAD HIM and now he’s smelling everything and meowing and cuddling up to me and i’m very scared :-( is there a house fire :-( did someone die :-( why are you in here sammy :-( :-(